What is the name of this song?

It's this one alternative rock song from the late 90's-early 00's where there's this clean, kind of fast guitar riff played throughout the song. the lead singer doesn't sing, but he talks in a kind of monotone voice during the song and the lyrics are something about how someone didn't love him (i'm not to sure about this). there's also this really simple and repetitive trumpet part that repeats throughout the song. what's the name of this song?